Monday, May 12, 2014

Single Mommy Bloggin' Story

Group: mommy bloggers

The story:
These ladies are Midwest housewives with multiple kids. They are Christian and have at least graduated high school. Many have graduated college, but many have also dropped out of college for the kids. They are involved women and devoted mothers who write insightfully about their opinions, but are judgmental of opinions and others who differ from them. They have a basic knowledge on a wide range of topics such as parenting, make-up, cooking, crafting etc. They are notoriously envious of other people’s lives, and like looking better off despite "all the things" they have to do, even if they are not. They are a powerful group of 4.4 million women, with 18.3 followers.
These messages are demonstrated by titles of books like “the mommy mob” and in the comments of more controversial parenting opinions. Also the fact that mommy bloggers are writing about how judgmental other mommy bloggers are…hmm….

I also found many of the articles that were about women fighting the single story. Some are offended that the label “Mommy blogger” is used so widely. Women who write about politics in Washington, but might have the occasional mention of a child will get lumped in with any legitimately bat-crazy "mommy." It's the Victorian woman novelist all over again. Women writers get treated differently (i. e. like second class writers). But things may be changing. One woman said, “If we as women and mothers buy into this idea that mommy blogging is shrill and a negative label — then how can we expect anyone else to take us seriously?” (Huffington article). The fact that so many articles were written to contradict the single story is proof of the possibility of change.




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