Tuesday, October 15, 2013

America's deadbeat dad

Many sources of media today render American fathers as incompetent and unreliable. The media reinforces this stereotype with humor. Humor works with ubiquity to solidify the stereotype of the deadbeat dad in every American mind.


One example of the media's emphasis on deadbeat dads is found in the article: "Deadbeat Dad with 22 Kids by 14 Women May Get Reality TV Show." The journalist who wrote this article relayed an objective story, as they should, but then they added an unnecessary video to their article. They included a humorous Autotune Remix of interview footage of the alleged deadbeat dad. (Article: http://newsone.com/2641374/orlando-shaw-reality-tv-show/)

Linking this video to their article likely generated viewer interest, but it may have negative repercussions as well. Many viewers will now associate lighthearted humor and amusement with fatherhood failure. The virality of this story, and the humor involved both contribute to society's acceptance of the deadbeat dad stereotype.


The deadbeat dad stereotype is also evident in TV shows. Screenwriters can only grant each character a limited amount of depth, because of the brief and fast-paced nature of TV shows. One consequence of this is that American dads are often defaulted to the "deadbeat dad" stereotype. They often possess incompetence and unreliability as fundamental attributes.

One example is found in the TV show "New Girl." In this show, Nick is a main character. Nick's father is a flighty scam artist. Because his dad was so unreliable, Nick coped by becoming a lazy alcoholic with a lack of resolve. This show not only reinforces deadbeat dad stereotypes, but it also reinforces a "nurture v. nature" standpoint that the media today often subscribes to. TV shows often display one-dimensional characters as having inherited their largest character flaws from their parents (often their fathers in particular). While this may be partially true for many people, this is a skewed perspective, as many factors contribute to build one person's personality. This limited view promoted by TV shows is evidence of a harmful assumption associated with the single story of the deadbeat dad.

Americans have taken a cue from the media. Many Americans help perpetuate the single story of the American dad by poking fun at the deadbeat stereotype. As seen in the image to the right, we create our own comedic media based on this very single story. We follow the media's pattern and associate lighthearted humor with America's deadbeat dad. This limits the American dad, because Americans often view him as a bumbling fool, unable to care for a family. Clearly, the social implications are crippling. If we Americans want the deadbeat dad phenomenon in their nation to cease, then we must stop mocking it. Dousing a controversial stereotype with frequent and lighthearted humor only reinforces the skewed view.

9 comments:

  1. I agree with this whole-heartedly. It's sad to see how much the media influences our perception and quota for how men should act and who they should be. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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  2. Wow what a great topic. It's so true how the media subtly sneaks this into different shows and such.

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  4. I love that you chose this topic. I think a lot of the deadbeat dad syndrome comes from feminism. Not to hate on feminist, but if we keep perpetuating the idea that we are strong women who need no man, how can we expect men to step up to the plate? Men and women need to work together to decide to be mutually dependent and respectful.

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  5. It's interesting how long this narrative has been pushed in the entertainment industry. I remember Married With Children which was painfully embarrassing in how it portrayed dads. Then came along Homer Simpson. Being a cartoon made it less real and easier to laugh at. Then we had Home Improvement. The list really goes on and on.

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  6. I definitely agree with Katie, a lot of feminist ideas have made men weaker and weaker with every generation especially when it comes to family responsibilities. The idea of a strong independent woman gives many men the idea that if they aren't needed they'll just knock up whoever and then run off. Dad's are no longer portrayed as strong leaders of a family but more of a tag a long nuisance

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  7. It's sad that people now accept guys acting like this in real life. I really think that the media has made guys think it's okay to be lazy and uninvolved and girls think that it's normal for boyfriends and husbands to act like this.

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  8. It's sad that people now accept guys acting like this in real life. I really think that the media has made guys think it's okay to be lazy and uninvolved and girls think that it's normal for boyfriends and husbands to act like this.

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  9. A thoughtful post. This is one of the most harmful stereotypes in media today.

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